1. Questions for ya’ll

    So what is it about poverty, or even wealth, that makes us so uncomfortable?

    If you could change your life, would you? And if so, what part(s)?

    This stemmed from a very late-night conversation my sister and I just had with our mom, after our day in Atlanta and being around many very different people. There are truly difficult social problems to solve. We try, I believe that we really try.

    But I also believe that we could be imagining unhappiness among people who are actually quite content with their lives.

    And is it because that whatever might make them happy is not the same as what makes us happy? Or that their lives are just so incomprehensibly different, and that we, as social beings, tend to associate with those who exhibit lifestyle similarities? 

    On a slight tangent, the only reason I’ve ever been particularly bothered by stereotypes is because it’s a label, or perhaps a number of labels that people put on a group of other people for the intent and purpose of distancing. “Oh, well at least I’m not like that”. Luckily, I’ve encountered very kind and tolerant, uh, people (for lack of a better word).

    Please allow me to share what I read today, 3 Nephi 14:2-3.

    For with what judgement ye judge, ye shall be judged; and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

    And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?

    Disclaimer, I don’t know what a mote is.

    We may think we know a lot about each other… do we really? There isn’t anyone who is less human because he or she is poor, or for being “privileged”; that’s really the thing to remember. 

  2. One is not simply friends with her former boyfriend.

    Especially if they were not friends before they started dating.

    Other things I have learned:

    1. making the bed is worth the effort.

    2. as is morning prayer and scripture study. the past couple of days have been so great.

    3. Supreme Des Ducs Camembert is amazing. A little pricey, starting at $5 a wedge. So my sister and I splurged a tiny bit on cheese last night.

    4. “Whip It” (2009), directed by Drew Barrymore. I cringed a little bit throughout ( a lotta language) but overall an interesting commentary on relationships and seeking after personal goals/interests.

    5. I am very grateful for all the things the Lord provides for me, for everyone. There is incredible joy to be found when pondering His life and Atonement. As I put in my best efforts to secure the promises He has made to me, I notice fewer regrets and that I feel good about myself.

    Happy Wednesday ya’ll.

  3. How perfect that this is the post at the top of my dashboard when I log into Tumblr—in this moment I’d like to extend warm congratulations to my darling friends Caitlin and Neil. I met them both from living in the same apartment complex this past academic year, and therefore be in the same student ward. What blessings they both have brought to me, and I am very happy that they’re getting married. I’m sure many, MANY of our other friends are claiming that they all saw it coming.
From day one, lemme tell ya’ll. They are so stinkin’ cute and one of my favorite couples, if I can even say as much. And it’s because they were (and still are) wonderful, down-to-earth individuals before they began dating. They’re such sweethearts, both very kind and hilarious—I have enjoyed witnessing Caitlin adopting accents and a sassy attitude thick like peanut butter. I don’t care if that’s not the actual idiom. And talented—oh, so talented! I don’t dare too-soon forget the musical number they performed in sacrament meeting, however long ago that was (Neil is a fantastic pianist). From her apartment below mine, I used to hear Caitlin belting songs (but let that be of no embarrassment whatsoever)!
Clearly I admire these two very, very much, and I wish them happy eternity :’D
Read up at her blog, http://www.singlikenooneislistening-caitlin.blogspot.com/,
and thank you observando, for posting this lovely photo.

    How perfect that this is the post at the top of my dashboard when I log into Tumblr—in this moment I’d like to extend warm congratulations to my darling friends Caitlin and Neil. I met them both from living in the same apartment complex this past academic year, and therefore be in the same student ward. What blessings they both have brought to me, and I am very happy that they’re getting married. I’m sure many, MANY of our other friends are claiming that they all saw it coming.

    From day one, lemme tell ya’ll. They are so stinkin’ cute and one of my favorite couples, if I can even say as much. And it’s because they were (and still are) wonderful, down-to-earth individuals before they began dating. They’re such sweethearts, both very kind and hilarious—I have enjoyed witnessing Caitlin adopting accents and a sassy attitude thick like peanut butter. I don’t care if that’s not the actual idiom. And talented—oh, so talented! I don’t dare too-soon forget the musical number they performed in sacrament meeting, however long ago that was (Neil is a fantastic pianist). From her apartment below mine, I used to hear Caitlin belting songs (but let that be of no embarrassment whatsoever)!

    Clearly I admire these two very, very much, and I wish them happy eternity :’D

    Read up at her blog, http://www.singlikenooneislistening-caitlin.blogspot.com/,

    and thank you observando, for posting this lovely photo.

  4. The toothpaste story and where I’ve been

    Yep, there’s a tale begging to be told, a little something to be said about vanity. It’s short, don’t worry. I also don’t have the most excellent story-telling skills, so please excuse me on this.

    So the other night, I’m just getting ready for bed. It’s already really late, about 1AM. Seems like since I got home from college I go to bed later and later :(

    That aside, let’s refocus on how I’m in the bathroom, fighting with my tube o’ toothpaste. See, I hate waste. (If you want to attribute that to my being Asian, I suppose you’re welcome to do so.) I’m struggling with this tube quite a bit, mashing and twisting at the top of it. Finally, I resort to starting at the bottom, crimping as I go to squeeze out remnants I KNOW are in there—I hope you will sympathize with me here.

    I also hope, for future reference, that someone’s got better ideas as to how to fight with the toothpaste tube. 

    But I did it! I did squeeze out a perfect pea-sized amount and swiped it unto my brush—

    So enamored with my success, I glance in the mirror to give myself a victorious smirk as I cap and put away my toothpaste when I hear this tiny gentle “plop.”

    I look down at the sink bowl and there is that perfect pea-sized bit of toothpaste I just slaved over.

    [ >.< ]

    Don’t any of ya’ll fret, I got some toothpaste that night. And I also learned I shouldn’t look in the mirror so much.

    Great story, huh? Anyways, my family and I have been very busy—the past week, it was cleaning up around the house to get it real nice for my sister’s fiance’s visit here. Then of course, it’s also been a lot of invitation-addressing, shopping (I’m telling ya’ll, purple shoes have been THE most difficult to find!) and shopping, but for groceries! It’s been a long time since it was a full house, and we’d forgotten how quickly six people can go through orange juice and bread. And other than that, I’ve been hanging out on a bunch of other blogs I’ve recently discovered:

    http://breezydaysblog.blogspot.com/

    http://www.littletreevintage.com

    http://www.clothedmuch.com

    http://www.auniesauce.com/

    and http://www.dearestlou.com/.

    “Sha-nanna”, as I like to call the adorable couple, flew back out to Utah this morning, so today, we really should be packing to drive out… tomorrow. With that being said, guess I’ll be going on yet another hiatus.

    However, I’m thinking it’s time for some changes. I haven’t decided if it’ll be a face-lift on this blog or if I’ll just transfer stuff onto a new one, but I’ll take suggestions.

    Happy Monday? :)

  5. What Twilight’s reeaaally about…

    So I don’t actually know, or care about what Twilight is really about, I just wanted to talk about being Asian and in Georgia, which is just not a good combination. Shure, I grew up here. Shuuure, I say ya’ll and every now and then, someone claims to hear a drawl.

    Yeah I like biscuits and sausage gravy.

    But I sure as heck don’t like mosquitos. Blood-sucking little devils, I just might finally relate to Bella’s dilemma. To the most miniscule level of a “maybe”. 

    How’s this for a “welcome home”? I was outside for a minute, two tops, and I get rewarded with four wonderful welts upon my legs. How I got bitten on my thigh when my bottoms are knee-length, I have no idea but oh boy, is it going to be a great summer swatting at these sneaky little jerks.

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    kindof how I feel about someone right now…

  7. Is it okay…

    …for me to ask, why are we becoming so dumb? drinking hand sanitizer, REALLY?

    http://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/teens-turn-hand-sanitizer-drunk-183000750.html

  8. This is stinkin’ adorable.

    kathleentierney:

    This boy means the world to me. He is my absolute best friend and God brought him into my life right when I needed him. He has helped to tear down so many of my insecurities and to see myself as a beautiful creation of God. He encourages me and pushes me. He is patient with me. He listens when I need him to, even if it’s just to my useless ramblings. I love his heart for other people and the compassion he has for them and the value he finds in building relationships with people. I love his light-hearted nature and that he knows how and when to be silly. I love his desire for spontaneity. I love his honesty. I love his heart for God, and that he works to live a life that reflects the love of Jesus and isn’t afraid to admit when he messes up. I love that he is working to honor his Creator above all else. I love him. These pictures are goofy, but so is he. I am incredibly thankful that he is fighting for me, always. 

    Ps: Today is three months and counting.

  9. Home…

    WHY IS IT SO COLD?!? THIS IS NOT FINE BY ME.

    Georgia water tastes so much better than Utah water, though I already kind of miss it there. I like being able to walk to the grocery store, or just across the street to the city library (that, the ward, and its being within ten minutes from campus was basically all that redeemed the apartment complex I was in for the past academic year). Dinner group with my awesome roommates was excellent… but dinners made by my parents will always have a special place in my heart :)

    And though not so much today, I hope to do things of great and good consequence, like conquer the world! Or just the stuff I forgot I had left behind…

    I have a sister who has just graduated and will be married soon, quite a few friends leaving for volunteer missions, yet another lovely friend who’s off to China/Taiwan (please blog often… and bring me something awesome), and I will be returning to my employment at a beloved summer art camp.

    Happy adventures all!

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